32 Things i have experienced / learnt till date

Friends and foes who take time to read my blog , thanks in advance for reading the post :) . 

After seeing 32 long years in life i have experienced and learnt some good and bad things, wanted to share it amongst you. Hope you might have also come across these situations.

Disclaimer: The items mentioned below has occurrence in others life it might be co-incidental or accidental. If a good result is obtained , congrats on that. If otherwise , welcome to the club. Some of the things i have learnt based on watching movies, documentaries and real life incidents, here are some of them.

without wasting time ...

1. You will be a wrong item in a wrong place at wrong time and at wrong instance.
2. How much ever you earn, give something people who don't have anything instead of wasting it. It can help one to live a extra day. Even a beggar gives to street animals who don't have food to eat.
3. How much ever life kicks you backwards, take it. Even it repeats, give a final push before you quit. End result will teach you a lesson. Ending up in a loss means you are not a loser, you are the second best.
4. What ever you like and wish to have will not come to you, even if it comes it will stay for a short time and goes off. Chasing for the same will not be successful.   
5. Don't pressurize others or known items , it will lead to a fight. If the argument or discussion is going nowhere, Keep quiet. Losing and winning is better than fighting and losing.
6. When someone smiles at you and talks, spare a moment to have a word with them. If they understand the situation and get adjusted well. Else, close the matter.
7. Never waste water , Food and fuel. All are lifelines for us.
8. Make up and looking good sells yourselves,if you are thin,ugly and dark or grey haired you are a second class citizen. But they don't know that all famous people were not beautiful? If you are handsome and beautiful without brains, crowd will follow you and you have a lot of respect, else nobody cares a shit about you. The treatment for you depends on how you show yourself to the world in terms of your wealth and clothes and not by your nature.
9. Whatever and how much truth you tell, it's a lie to others. Accepting the same by swearing will also not work.
10. If you are losing everywhere, don't feel bad and go down. Feel happy that there exists at least one thing in life where others even beat you.
11. In future there exists a situation where you need to call up and fix an appointment to meet your closed ones. Trying to give a surprise gives them a shock as you are uninvited at that time. Ignoring the same might lead to complications ;)
12. How much ever you care/like someone, there exists an equal amount of hatred for the same.
13. Rich people will be richer and poor people will get poorer day by day. I am talking in all aspects.
14. If you are depressed, listen to online radio or songs that make you calm down. Even great people over came depression to be successful.
15. Run baby run if you are down. It helps to keep your sorrows away, you can push yourself to the finish and feel happier seeing all people behind you.
16. If No one wants to join you in your journey, leave them and go ahead. Even Christopher McCandless and Chris Gardner were left alone. 
17. Someone abuses and  treats you like dirt, smile at them. It makes them to realize their mistake in long run.
18. Time is money for most of us. It's worth more than relationships. But patience and love are baap of all others. Have them.
19. Never comment on food that you eat which is prepared bu others. Even you might cook badly at times even if you know cooking . [ thanks to my ex-room mate Tejas for teaching this lesson]
20. Be simple and live simple. It's worth doing so. We come simple and leave simple, isn't it?. Arguing against same will lead to labeling you as a mad man.
21. If someone highlights your mistake, listen to them instead of proving yourself right. There might be an important lesson in that.
22. Do your own work and help others. Don't expect all to come near you. When you are alone, you must do the work.
23. Even if you slog day and night in your work and life, you can't please your clients and family members, always there is a saying in the end " Some thing more is needed in this".
24. Feeling sorry and smiling at others is a crime, if you do so you end up in a mess :). In future Indian government might introduce a law to make sure that action is taken against these people.
25. Nobody will have time to visit your marriage or your funeral or to an hospital if you are admitted in case if it falls on a weekday. Be-cause all are busy with "Work". All you see a Like or a Post in FB. Because FB is more easily accessible than your phone or you.
26. If you don't talk it's a crime, if you talk it's a mistake. Talking sense is nonsense , while talking non sense is nuisance.
27. Say the truth. It will help in long run. Agreeing for the moment may lead to disasters. Time is there, good things will come.
28. If you are rejected at instances and criticized , don't feel sad or let down, Say bloody "u missed a good one 4 yourself". Keep yourself happy as you will get many more chances :). Prove the critics wrong and make sure them it's a slap on their face by doing good.
29. Save something for your future, it helps. You cant trust others 4 help in this fast paced life. You might be robbed at any instance !!!!
30. Say your troubles if you have to your close friends not to your relatives, they will surely help you out. if not, you are the most unluckiest.
31. I got to know that Media will help you to project an innocent man as a criminal if you drop some tears. your life is with you, don't listen to others just to spoil your life. If your life is controlled by someone, it will lead to disaster. change yourself.
32. Last but not the least. Facing all downtrends and you are here, it's a great achievement. Keep others and yourself happy...

Time flies off in a flash, half of the time has been spent without any success and luck. Many things came and went. Still i am waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel. But in last few years i got to know that there were lot of things which i missed, trying to earn the same lead to fights and fights and also threatening. Now i have given up because i don't want to end up in trouble. For all small reasons people say we know LAW and will take action against you. Better leave that which doesn't come to you. Keep pushing yourself and live the rest of your life.  

Truth: I love all and especially closed ones, ones who are frustrated with my behavior still feel that i am the worst person alive. Cant help it. To know the truth please travel back and read my old posts. 

Disclaimer: The post is not intended at particular person or persons. Taking revenge/Legal action or grudge against the post is not recommended.

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