Thursday, June 19, 2008

Some golden rules that I have learnt in my life... (Based on the inputs I have got from my friends and also my own experience)

People say life is short, make it sweet. It’s true. There are some events that happen in our life which will teach us a lesson and make us to be better or make us realize that we have done is wrong or right. People may achieve something or may loose something valuable in their life which they are attached to most. Here are some rules, rather I would say some inputs that people can adopt in their life if they feel it ok with them. It is not just the experience of mine but also the inputs I have got from many of the people whom I have met.

1. At any stage of your life, never be alone, it is like a demon, and it will kill you.
2. When you falter at the first step, take it as a positive step and think that there’s lot to come and do better.
3. When you are right, always stand by it whatever people might say, at some stage they will agree that you are right and will support you.
4. When you are alone at a good cause, never be afraid of people trying to hurt you. It happens at every stage; when you are doing good work people try to dig faults. Carry on, take the criticism in a positive manner and will always help you to do good even more.
5. When you are depressed try to listen to some music, especially inspirational or slow music. It will help somewhat to relax. If not try to talk to self, it definitely works.
6. Always smile  , and people think that you are crazy let it be. Spread smile and be happy.
7. When people betray you, take it easily never be depressed. It’s a chance for you to make more friends and make them realize how much worth you are.
8. If your success is not recognized by people don’t be sad. Do better and better someday you will be recognized. Don’t do any work for accolades rather do it for your fun, really you will enjoy. 9. Don’t live your life for others life for yourself, be the “Hero of the Day”.
10. Always give constructive feedback to your peers and friends, which can make them happy.
11. When traveling alone have music player with you will really enjoy of course a camera will also do.
12. Keep yourself engaged at all times this will help you to avoid depression. Keep dreaming it helps you to be active. Share knowledge it helps you to learn better and keep discovering.

There are many more things to put here, but I thought these are some of the points which I can write. People might say I am preaching, but its not the case. It is just keeping me engaged and sharing some experiences which I have faced.

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